We put so much into it (it being the relationship), and then it falls flat. Its not that we didn't see it coming, we did. but we ignored it.
All the signs, all the advise, everything! and we make up excuses, and we hope for change! to no avail.
Blame Yourself.
He/she wont change and don't try to change them (silly idea), because you'll only love the reflection of yourself that you've created and not the true person that they really are. (its cliché but true)
Piece of advise... just let go.
Love doesn't hurt so much!
It only hurts when the person is away and its a pleasurable hurt (more like a longing, can't wait for him/her to get home)... and it goes away as soon as he/she returns. oh and by the way... its reciprocal. He/she must be longing to see you too... and it should hurt when you're away.
One hand cannot clap! and if he/she isn't fighting along with you to make it work.
Just let go!
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