TONI BRAXTON - "WHY YOU DON'T LOVE ME"

Listen for the males verse in the song... sometimes that's all a girl needs to hear.

Be Honest...

Honesty
All I ask from you is honesty  Through time and event this will help our love grow Honesty brings forth the special glow  With honesty you have everything we need  Honesty is like planting a seed And when it begins to grow  My love for you will also flow Barbery M. Evans  remember this parable *whats in the dark MUST eventually come to the light* Yes! the truth hurts... But lying hurts even more!

@D.Kevin. #cosign

Tribute to Uncle Bob

Sharing the thought with a friend...

When I listen to uncle Bob, its like the things that made life unpleasant 

disappears. . . 

And every noise is silent except his melodious voice and the music.

He was a GIFT to Jamaica. 

I'm proud to be Jamaican ♥

He knows music, He understands love!

"Emancipate yourself from mental slavery, none but ourselves can free our mind..."

Before the NATTY. 

"Who the hat fit, let them wear it" 

Just let go

Sometimes its not worth the fight...

We put so much into it (it being the relationship), and then it falls flat. Its not that we didn't see it coming, we did. but we ignored it.

All the signs, all the advise, everything! and we make up excuses, and we hope for change! to no avail.

Blame Yourself. 

He/she wont change and don't try to change them (silly idea), because you'll only love the reflection of yourself that you've created and not the true person that they really are. (its cliché but true)

Piece of advise... just let go. 

Love doesn't hurt so much! 

It only hurts when the person is away and its a pleasurable hurt (more like a longing, can't wait for him/her to get home)... and it goes away as soon as he/she returns. oh and by the way... its reciprocal. He/she must be longing to see you too... and it should hurt when you're away.

One hand cannot clap! and if he/she isn't fighting along with you to make it work.

Just let go!

How do you know if he LOVES you?

ladies, the signs don't lie. if you notice them and ignore them... you are only hurting yourself! 

Letting yourself fall deeper and deeper into his trench, while he is enjoying that sweet and decadent part of you which truly belong to Mr. Right! 

Be Warned:

1. If he's changing the topic when you discuss your future together with him, it is not a good sign of a healthy relationship with your love. 

2. If he doesn't show interest in showing you off to the PARENTALs or his FRIENDs, and worse if he doesn't want to take you out in public... maybe he's just not that into you!

3. If he doesn't want to spend quality time with you and his visits are always brief... then maybe he's just in it for a quicky!

4. If he gives more importance to his friends and takes their sides over yours... he is definitely not into you.

5. When you need him and he's always making up excuses ... he's NOT the right guy for you

Love is patient, love is pure, love is involved, love is caring, love is unconditional, love permeates and is felt by everyone in the room. If he loves you the whole world will know it, even before you do! 

LOVE = it can work... watch the signs!

A Message from me. P e r s o n a l . . .

Christmas 2008

So this is Me!

Today I decided to get a little personal.

1st. Happy 2011 to one and all... cease it, and make the best of it! 2010 may not have gone how we would have wanted it to, but this new year offers us a clean sheet to start over... to take those mistakes from 2010 and make magic in 2011.

As we move forward REMEMBER to LOVE!
1. God (the higher power you credit for Earth's wonders)
2. Self (to the world you may be one person but to one person you may be the world)
3. Others (there are always going to be those people that will hurt you, but keep on trusting and loving... just be careful who you trust next time around)

 ♥ Christmas 2010 ♥

Mix up the L O V E with a little fun!

Reread your favorite books... ♥

Don't let old friendships die... call him/her *wink*

Take that vacation you've always dreamed of... or at least start to save towards it.

Make a list of all the things you want to accomplish for this year... STICK to it!

Finally, Live. Love. Laugh.

The Difference . . .

I got up early one morning

and rushed right into the day;

I had so much to accomplish 

that I forgot to pray

Peace and Serenity 

Problems just tumbled about me,                  

and heavier came each task,

"why doesn't God help me?"

I wondered...

He answered: "you didn't ask."

I wanted to see joy and beauty

but the day toiled on, gray and bleak;

I wondered why God didn't show me, 

He said: "you didn't seek."

I tried to come into his presence

I used all the keys at the lock

God gently and lovely chide,

"My child, you didn't knock."

I woke up this morning, 

and thought before entering this day

I have so much to accomplish

I should take time to pray.